I’VE BEEN FEATURED IN
250+ MEDIA OUTLETS
I remember being 6 years old, scribbling poems on napkins, inside books, perhaps even once or twice on the walls (sorry, Mom), and understanding how powerful words, stories, and feelings could be once they left your own heart.
I began writing tiny little things for anyone who'd let me, and eventually for myself in 2011 when I created the blog "The Things I Learned From" as a home for the mistakes, the moments, and the memories that just felt too unsettling to keep to myself.
Since then, I've proudly pushed for my words to be published in over 125 different publications, from TODAY.com to the New York Times, from Glamour magazine to Women's Health magazine. In 2013, I published my very first book, "All My Friends Are Engaged," which became an Amazon bestseller.
My life ended up taking a one-way trip toward the adventure of a lifetime in 2014 when I posted a Craigslist ad offering myself as a bridesmaid for hire to strangers around the world. The ad went viral, and just three days later, I started my first business, Bridesmaid for Hire, which I still run today.
I wrote an entire memoir about this time in my life, which was equal parts extraordinary and equal parts unbelievable. It's called "Always a Bridesmaid (for Hire)." My most recent book is about trying to get married in a pandemic. Meet "Finally the Bride."
I've also found myself telling my story on a lot of TV shows, like the TODAY Show, where Hoda Kotb gave me the warmest hug; Good Morning America, which came with me to video my very first wedding as a professional bridesmaid in Minnesota; and Fox News, where an anchor called my job the "weirdest ever." I'm working really hard to turn my story into a reality show or a TV show—maybe even a movie.
Today, I live in Brooklyn with my Adam, Gemma, and Goofy (the dog). I'm always writing books and my newsletter, The Monday Pick Me Up.
I've expanded Bridesmaid for Hire to not only offer in-person support. We now offer a suite of wedding AI tools (speech and vow writing, bachelorette party planning, etc.), templates, and a 24/7 hotline that you can call when you need unbiased advice, support, and actionable next steps.
I also have a newsletter and podcast called 1-800-Bridesmaid, in partnership with David's Bridal and Love Stories TV, where strangers call in to share their most honest wedding, love, friendship, and life secrets, and we try our best to give them advice.
Years ago, I met my husband, Adam, and we decided to sell 90% of our belongings, ditch our leases, and live in a new city every 30 days. We've lived in Portland, Austin, LA, Brooklyn, and many more spots. It's been the kind of journey that reminds me what matters most about life, myself, and my relationship with Adam.
Today, we live in Brooklyn near what matters most—pizza places within a 3-block radius. It's my mission to eat as much pizza, write as many books, and help as many strangers feel okay about life's pushes and pulls as I can. I'm a hybrid entrepreneur who spends early mornings working and the rest of the day with my spunky, curious, and funny 2-year-old, Gemma.
We can be seen dancing around Williamsburg with pizza slices in our hands and made-up songs rolling out of our mouths. Say hello if you ever see us! In case we ever meet, and I really hope we do, you should know that I'll hug you hello, ask questions that matter, and cross my fingers that we stay friends forever.
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Started a blog after online publications wouldn’t publish my essays
Saved up money & applied for over 200 jobs before landing one and moving to NYC
Finally got over ten well-known online publications to publish my writing
Landed a dream job at a start-up and published my first book, All My Friends Are Engaged
Started the headline-making business, Bridesmaid for Hire & appeared on over 250 media outlets, including Good Morning America
Got laid-off from my full-time job & became 100% my own boss. Started consulting and doing in-house workshops for companies like Google, Hyatt Hotels and HBO. Began my 1:1 coaching program. Doubled my “full-time” income
Published my second book through Simon & Schuster. Sold 90% of my belongings to live in a new city every month
Launched the You’re Not Getting Any Yonger Podcast & Facebook group
Created Finally the Bride, an online platform where over 100,000 strangers voted on all my wedding decisions
Turned my lessons-learned experience and expert strategy into program to help others start big things (starting with small steps)
Turned my lessons-learned experience and expert strategy into program to help others start big things (starting with small steps)
Created Odd Jobs & The First Years of Marriage newsletter, and The Newlywed Card Game.
Grew my audience to over 200,000 followers and subscribers across newsletters and social media accounts.
Created Scared to Be a Mom and became a really scared first-time mom.
Created Scared to Be a Mom and became a really scared first-time mom.
Published my third non-fiction book, Finally the Bride. Started my own publishing company: For Gemma.
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